I'd probably need more proof-of-work of understanding to want to continue engaging
[This is a message I have, several times, wanted to send to commenters (mainly on public forums). I'm putting it here so I can link to it.] For whatever reason, in order for me to actively independently desire to continue this thread of discussion, I would probably need something from you. What I would need from you is something like more evidence that you're genuinely trying to understand what I'm saying in context, and some of the output from that process. This is not a dunk on you. This is me just saying: For the time being, I don't want to keep talking on this thread, though I'm still at least a little interested in the topic. By default I would just go silent. But, as a slight improvement over that, I'm letting you know that I might want to keep talking on this thread, if I had more sense that (and how) you were trying to understand what I'm saying / what I think / what we agree or disagree about / etc. I might have stated slightly more specifical...